Q: I’m invited to a black-tie wedding, and am not quite sure what is appropriate to wear to it and what’s not. Any advice?
A: Well for men, it’s usually mandatory to wear a tux with a black tie. Some weddings will allow a black suit and black tie as an alternative, but you’d have to ask someone from the wedding you’re attending to be sure. For women, usually a dressy cocktail dress or definitely a long gown are appropriate. Some people even think short dresses aren’t appropriate for a black tie wedding, so be sure to consult with your bride or groom first, so you’re not the only one in a short dress. There’s no need to skimp out on the sparkles, and when in doubt, err toward the dressier side vs. casual.
What about you Revolutionistas? Have you ever attended a black tie wedding in a cocktail dress only to find you were the only one? Have you ever had a wedding attire disaster or faux pas? Share with us!
Wed, Aug 4, 2010
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